Wednesday, March 31, 2010

Zen Meditation Class in Los Angeles

You are invited to participate in a
Zen Meditation Class

With Andrea F. Polard, Psy.D.


Happiness comes from managing our lives skillfully as well as from serenity.
But how do we find the right balance?
Zen meditation centers us,
reduces stress,
and brings us the necessary clarity.

Beginners of meditation are welcome. The class is an opportunity to experience community while sitting quietly. There will be time to address questions about life in the modern world. The class is not psychotherapy and requires solid emotional health.

I am looking forward to you.

Sincerely,
Andrea

Time: Thursday mornings (9:30 am) and evenings (7:30 pm); classes begin May 6th 2010
Place: 2001 Barrington Blvd., Suite 110, Los Angeles, 90025
Fee: $ 15 per session (one hour)
Please RSVP: Tel: 310-455-0928 or DrAPolard@verizon.net

Wednesday, March 10, 2010

Good News-Bad News About Happiness

Bad News: Happiness is not a choice.
Good News: You can choose to start the process.

Bad News: Happiness cannot be achieved.
Good News: As you can never achieve happiness, you cannot lose it either. For once, the world is not divided into the "haves" and "have-nots".

Bad News: Happiness is not always an easy process.
Good News: Accepting difficulty makes difficulty easier.

Bad News: Happiness is not eternal bliss.
Good News: Eternal is constant and constant is boring.

Bad News: Happiness takes a back seat to survival.
Good News: We can elevate happiness when basic needs are met.

Bad News: Happiness is not our unconscious goal or ultimate aim. Survival is.
Good News: Happiness is not our unconscious goal or ultimate aim. Survival is.

Bad News: There are times that we have to compromise the ultimate goal of survival. We might feel like an idiot.
Good News: It is possible to compromise the ultimate goal of survival. Feeling like an idiot can be fun.

Bad News: The best players of the survival of the fittest can feel superior over others.
Good News: Happy people do not distinguish between "up" and "down" , "superior" and "inferior". Happy people relate and respond to the whole of life. Thus they are confident.

Bad News: Happy people do not always feel confident; sometimes they suffer unnecessarily.
Good News: Happy people do that with confidence too.

Bad News: Happiness is based on a flexible consciousness. Nobody knows what that is.
Good News: Thankfully there are hints in The Two Wings of Happiness; Connecting Western with Eastern Thought ... soon available.